Healed & Happy

  • Look forward to the rest of your life.

  • Deeply connect with your partner and (future, possible) children.

  • Create and keep lifelong, deeply trusted and fulfilling friendships.

  • Fully being yourself, so you can live the rest of a life you thoroughly enjoy.

  • Honoring, respecting and loving yourself.

    Healed & Happy is here for you.

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Your journey to happy, safe and deeply loved

  • This is for you, if...

    You know that there is more to life than struggle, fear, fights and anxiety.
    You are ready for true calm, and unshakeable peace.
    You are ready to truly feel safe, and live in abundance in all areas of their lives.

  • In this online program, you will...

    Make healing feel safe, and easier.
    Step into a new reality where feeling safe, healed and happy is your normal. Deeply connect with yourself, your desires and your happiness.
    Create a world inside you and around you that supports you fully, while you are just being you

  • It includes...

    7-part tailor-made healing program for fearful avoidants
    Lifetime access to an online membership portal where you will always be able to access all materials

Who is Paulien, andwhy can she help me?

The main reason is: Paulien has been there. In 8 years, she healed the Fearful Avoidant Attachment style by herself, mostly through EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) and has helped over 1500 people in her Dutch programs do the same.

 

Besides that:

 

Paulien Timmer has written two books before she was 30. The first was ‘Lang+Gelukkig’ (freely translated: Happily Ever After), written after interviewing 100 couples happily married over 40 years) and ’50 Relatieboosters’ (translated: 50 relationshipboosters): all based on science and positive psychology. 

 

She is certified by John Gottman in Clinical Therapy (level 1), Attachment & Trauma (ITTI), and in Emotional Freedom Techniques, NLP Practitioner, Clinical Hypnotherapy, and many more. 

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How does Healed & Happy work?

The program is structured into pathways, each made up of several modules that guide you through different aspects of healing. Upon joining, you get instant access to all content inside the app, allowing you to move through the program in a way that fits your timing and capacity.Although there is a recommended starting point, you are encouraged to listen to your own nervous system and use the pathways as a flexible, supportive framework rather than a fixed route.

This is what the ‘First Pathway’ roughly looks like:

Introduction

In this module you will learn and apply the tools to make your healing journey much, much easier and faster. 

Module 1

In this module you will lay a foundation for the rest of your life to help aid your healing, and make sure you aren’t struggling without getting anywhere.

Module 2

After this module you will have a complete shift around what you are worth and deserving of.

Module 3

In this module you will work on healing one of the most important core beliefs of the fearful avoidant attachment style, and what it feels like to heal one.

Module 4

After this module you will feel so much calmer, and MUCH more at peace. You won’t have the need to be hyperalert anymore, and will allow yourself to truly relax.

Module 5

In this module you will heal a very surprising driving force of the FA. One that took me 8 years to figure out, and made a world of difference. After healing this, you will allow yourself so much more of all the beautiful things in life.

Module 6

After this module, you will finally allow yourself to deeply connect with yourself, your partner, friends and (possible) future children.

Module 7

In this module you will release everything that’s holding you back from being happy NOW. You will stop postponing your happiness and truly start enjoying your life, even while healing. 

After the first pathway you get assigned further pathways based on your answers. These heal a wide variety of things, from codependency to procrastination, from perfectionism to waking up relaxed and rested.

And many more!

These pathways are always added to and improved. The more pathways there are, the more valuable the program will be. Any added pathways in the future will be available to you when you sign up now for this price.

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"Just did Module 2 - Who you are. It almost brought tears to my eyes. This was the thing I was searching for the last 8 years Paulien, and maybe my whole life before that unconsciously due to attachment trauma.."

Andris

Latvia

"I have cried more times in the 3 days since I bought this than I have in the past 2 years. So much trauma has been released. I AM NOT EVEN DONE WITH THE PROGRAM"

Eric

USA

This is the story of how Healed & Happy came to be

[Story starts at 1:33]

This video was recorded in 2022, when the program had just come out. Now, so many years later, we know it actually works!

Really well, also. Because, as much as I have poured my heart and soul into making this program, I also just wanted to know that it worked. So we actually measure progress, and most of the numbers in the survey that you fill in go down (from 8’s and 9’s to 2’s and 3’s!)

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Your Brain Just Needs a Different Approach

There are so many well meaning coaches and therapists out there, that know a lot about attachment styles, and try to help heal the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style.

 

They can absolutely be wonderful and really help. But what I see a lot, is that you, as a Fearful Avoidant, get underserved.

 

Healing the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style genuinely works so different from the other ones. Your fearbrain is exceptionally strong (something I call a Fear-dominant brain). It absolutely needs to feel safe. But feeling safe looks different for your fearbrain. There are so many paradoxes, hidden resistance and counterintuitive steps to really healing this. Which is why talk therapy, journaling or mindset work often fall short (even with the most well-meaning, well-intentioned therapists)

 

Healed & Happy is just completely focused on, and specialised in, healing the very specific roots of this attachment style. It is different because we are not going to fight your fearbrain. We work with it, and that can make the difference between working on healing for the rest of you life, and actually getting to a place of being healed. 

Feeling safe.

Feeling worthy, supported, loved. 

Feeling calm. 

And all of those things feeling totally fine for the Fearbrain.

All the things I so wish for you to feel

Using very specific processes designed for the Fearful Avoidant brain, we guide your system out of survival mode, so healing finally feels safe.

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"Healed & Happy works!

On average, participants see a 75% improvement in feeling more calm and having more positive beliefs."

-Paulien

15y

Experience in healing the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style

3000+

Fearful Avoidants helped in 8 years

75%

Average improvement in feeling calm and having more positive beliefs

Get your money back if it didn't serve you

30-Day Money-Back Guarantee

If for any reason you're not satisfied with the value you receive, simply reach out within 30 days of your purchase, and we'll refund your money in full. I just really want this to work for you. I really believe in the power of this program, and we will do everything we can on our end to help you. But if it doesn't, I will be happy to give you your money back. This guarantee is our way of ensuring you can try it out risk-free!

Earnings Disclaimer: Every effort has been made to accurately represent the value of our programs and the potential for transformation in your healing journey. However, we cannot guarantee any specific changes in your attachment style from applying the strategies and techniques shared. The figures we present are analysis from previous participants. These figures should not be interpreted as a promise, guarantee, or indication of your own future success. Your results will depend on several factors beyond our control, including your situation, skills and effort. Subject to our Refund Policy, all content is provided without any express or implied warranties. By continuing to access our content or make purchases, you acknowledge that we are not responsible for any outcomes you do or do not achieve based on the information we provide.

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How does it work?

The program is set up through an app, where you can follow the different modules specifically aimed at healing parts of the fearful avoidant attachment style at your own pace.

You start with the core foundational pathway. This will already work on healing some of the most important roots. After you've completed the first path, you can choose to follow the other modules that you feel you need to work on.

FAQ

Frequently asked questions

What is included in the program?

Lifetime access to an online membership portal where you will always be able to access all materials

Over 10 pathways, specifically aimed at healing roots of the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style.

Access to an app where you can go through the program at your own pace, receive notifications, reminders and affirmations to extra support you on your healing journey

How does this program help me?

The Healed & Happy program provides tailored guidance to help you heal from the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style. It focuses on understanding and working through your emotional triggers, developing healthier patterns, and building secure, loving relationships.

How long will it take to complete the program?

The program is self-paced and typically takes 8-12 weeks to complete, depending on your personal progress and dedication.

Is this program suitable for me?

Whether you are in a relationship or currently single, if you struggle with the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style and are ready to work on healing and creating lasting change, this program is designed for you.

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I so wish for you to experience the freedom, the peace and the love that you are already worthy of. You have amazing gifts, and when the fear driving all of the struggles you have is healed, you will naturally feel and enjoy those gifts. You are an amazing person, who was just unlucky with what happened. But whatever can be installed, can be uninstalled, so let’s do that 🙂

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Payment Options

Pricing

4x Monthly Payments

$197

/month for 4 months

Lifetime access to Healed & Happy

  • Full access to all Healed & Happy modules

  • A clear, structured program you can follow at your own pace

  • Freedom to revisit and deepen where your system needs it most

  • A self-directed healing journey that strengthens autonomy and self-trust

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One time Payment

$777

Lifetime access to Healed & Happy

  • Full access to all Healed & Happy modules

  • A clear, structured program you can follow at your own pace

  • Freedom to revisit and deepen where your system needs it most

  • A self-directed healing journey that strengthens autonomy and self-trust

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